I do NOT sarcastically said it. But, why are people really easy at 'that thing'. It is about a relationship with some commitments in various ways. It's about a declaration (a bit lebay) of LOVING someone. It's about a crazy feeling of being always together in sad and happy. It's about fitting each other, 'cause the two have some kelebihan and kekurangan.
Uh.
I looked at my friends of elementary school. After we graduated, some are dating. And then break up. Then going out with another, then break-up. Ain't they tired? Not so different in my junior high school.They have to manage their feeling to their previous girlfriend/boyfriend, then prepare someone new for the new one.
I don't believe it's such a easy thing to do. Right? (You aren't necessary to agree it, anyway)
Whereas, manage their life, at least about studying, they even don't care. Haha, how can they always spare their time for girlfriend/boyfriend, but studying?
Maybe there ARE some friends of mine who really have their great feeling for their gf/bf. I'm amazed sometimes. They cry, they laugh, they're touched, they're happy, they wait. Just for the one who they love. I envy this type of person. Really have commitment.
Move to the type of person who can easily change their gf/bf. Saying 'darling', lovey-dovey in front of people. But when we see the truth, do they really have feelings to each other?? or they have that kind of relationship just for HAVING FUN?
And then after changing so many times, they PROUDLY said, "I have 7 ex-bf" or "My ex wants to go back to me, but I have my current bf now. What to do?!"
HOW CAN THEY BE SO CONFUSED? It proves, they don't have special feeling for their bf/gf. Just a bit higher than a friend, but a bit lower that close/best friend.
It's just my opinion. Don't think what you did is wrong. But think before doing something. Please. Because, having that kind of relationship without special meaning, is useless.
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